Two envelopes recently brought the past from both sides of my family to the forefront.
The first...I was paging through one of my mother's knitting books and found an envelope, yellowed with age it had "get copies made" in her writing. I opened it up to find old negatives. I took them to be developed curious as to what would be on them. Modern technology didn't know what to make of old negatives so it took two weeks to get them back! They were photo's I had never seen before. One photo was of my maternal grandfather with three of my cousins and an unknown woman. The second, taken the same day, is my grandfather with one of my cousins. The third was my grandmother and grandfather holding my cousin obviously at a birthday party. The fourth photo is of my mother and father cutting hay with a scythe. As soon as I saw it I remembered her telling me about haying that way and that it wasn't hard because once you started you would get into a rhythm. So I made copies to put into the Christmas cards to the cousins.
The second envelope was put into my hand at the annual VFW bingo. The woman (K) who gave it to me had once dated my older brother. They broke up and she married someone else. I babysat all three of her children. Her son is my nephews godfather. So suffice it to say that the families have been friends for many years. She said "I just recently found this and while it is too late for #1 daughter to use it at her wedding, I thought you could put it away for #2. Your (paternal) grandmother gave me this for my high school graduation".
I opened the envelope to find a linen hankie with tatting around the edges.
My grandmother use to tat, crochet, quilt and make rugs but K was not sure if my grandmother had done the work on this or not.
Either way it was wonderful of her to have kept it these many years (40+) and to give it to #2.





